We have landed in Tokyo. Early in the morning on a weekday, somewhat groggy with jet lag, and hungry. The first order of business was to get rid of our luggage (in a large locker at Tokyo station). The second was breakfast.

Finding breakfast wasn’t hard. There are convenience stores absolutely everywhere. Finding a place to eat that breakfast was harder. You aren’t allowed to eat and drink while walking in the streets; it’s considered disorderly. There are also almost no benches anywhere. Benches encourage people to sit and hang around, especially young people, and that is kind of considered to be “loitering”. I think they generally just don’t want people to hang around in public places. You can use streets and parks to go from A to B, but keep your socializing and living out of the public eye. Such a contrast to many European towns and cities that go out of their way to liven up their public spaces, with benches and greenery etc, to encourage people to hang around.

We did find a pocket park consisting of about three bushes, a few metres of artificial turf, and a bench where we could sit and eat.

After that we just wandered around to get a general feeling for the city.

A lot of it is very tall and modern.

Then you turn off the main streets and wander into the smaller ones, and the atmosphere changes abruptly. Small concrete houses, little back alleys with potted plants.

A lot of the smaller streets are completely without sidewalks. Which doesn’t mean that they’re not for pedestrians. There’s this little strip of asphalt on one side, demarcated by a painted line, that is sort of reserved for pedestrians. But not really. You just have to co-exist with cars, bicycles etc. It mostly works out. It helps that there isn’t that much traffic on these back streets.

The building lots are often small. In Stockholm an inner-city building can be tens of metres in each direction; here they’re sometimes smaller than an average Swedish single-family house.

We saw so much every day, and I took so many photos, that I’ve broken up each day into multiple posts. After our general wandering on this day, we walked to Senso-ji temple and the surrounding Asakusa district, and then onwards to Ueno, all of which get their own posts.

Jet lag caught up with us around four or five in the afternoon. We picked up our luggage and started making our way towards our apartment in Ikebukuro.

Wherever we walked, there were shrines and temples everywhere. Outside of the central business and shopping districts, I think there’s a shrine almost in every city block. Some smaller, some larger.

Everything is slightly alien. I feel displaced. The streets are not like streets usually are; the familiar vegetables at the grocery shop are interspersed with strange ones. None of the signs are readable; none of the prices are relatable.

Tokyo is located by the sea and has some waterways flowing through it. In the places where we ended up, they were hardly noticeable, and mostly we forgot the sea was even there.

We’re on our way to Japan! I am so excited.

This is a bit of a dream trip for Ingrid and myself. We’ve both wanted to see Japan for years, but it has never seemed feasible. Mostly because of the cost, but also because of school etc.

Now Ingrid is old enough to earn her own money, and has been working and saving up all autumn (in addition to what she had been able to set aside from her job at the cafe). She had been thinking of doing a long Interrail vacation in Europe, but then found out just how advantageous the SEK/JPY exchange rate is right now and changed her plans. Initially she was going to do this on her own, but when I asked if I could join her, she said yes, so we’re going together.

We’re at very different stages of our lives, but in surprisingly similar financial situations – on a tight budget – so our preferences and priorities line up very well. Cheap flights, and the cheapest accommodation that gives us clean beds and a private bathroom. Two-week group trips to Japan start at about 45,000 SEK per person, and that’s without most meals; we expect our total cost per person, including meals and shopping, to come in at half of that at most. That’s less than I’ve paid for a one-week guided ski tour.

Ingrid has done all the heavy lifting in terms of planning: flights, dates, hotels, overall itinerary. Going on a custom vacation without having to do the majority (if not all) of the planning is a luxury I’ve not experienced in many years. That’s another thing that has made this previously impossible trip possible: Ingrid being between jobs and having ample time for planning and research.

This will be amazing.

More potential inspiration for the possible underground-themed embroidery project.

The Hötorget station is probably the one I’ve used most, in the last decade or so. Tretton37 had their office there, and then their next office as well, and so did Urb-it. The Stockholm concert hall is there. Active Solution is one stop to the east, but if I have any errands to run after work then those often take me to Hötorget.

This station doesn’t have any art on the walls that I’ve noticed. It’s one of the oldest stations, from the 1950s, before the city decided to start decorating them. It’s like a blue-tiled bathroom, very utilitarian. It only got its own art in the late 1990s – a light sculpture in the ceiling.

Clean-ish complete-ish chart of the leaf pattern. Only because I didn’t take any other photos today. Not because I expect anyone to be interested, or this to even be understandable to anyone – I had to make up my own symbols for “purl two together through the back loop” and fuzzy concepts such as “make one purlwise, leaning in the direction that fits the situation”, and I didn’t bother to note down the obvious middle bits.

I don’t mind most chores too much. But I really struggle to enjoy vacuuming.

Groceries and cooking? Usually fun, or neutral if I’m tired or rushed. Loading and unloading the dishwasher? Doing the dishes by hand? Watering the house plants? No problem. Dusting, cleaning the kitchen and the bathroom? I can get myself into a mindset where I enjoy it. But vacuuming I just never manage to enjoy. The vacuum itself is bulky and in my way. The furniture is in my way. The cord is in my way. It’s noisy. I need to pause to switch the nozzle between carpet mode and floor mode.

During my “rich people years” the one service we paid for was cleaning. I really miss that. I looked into paying for it myself but even the cheapest options (sticking to the legal ones and not “under the table” deals where the employees have no rights) are more than I can justify paying in my current situation.

A single dose of analgesic was enough to make a visible difference in Nysse. Two more daily doses and he’s back to normal. Eating three full portions of food and asking for more in between; going out for hours; looking relaxed while he sleeps. While he was in pain, it looked like he could never quite relax: even when he was resting, he didn’t dissolve into a puddle of cat. That turned-up chin and upside-down head is the clearest sign of deep relaxation.

Board game night at work. We warmed up with Dream On (a recurring favourite), then played a round of Wavelength and finished off with a few levels of The Crew: Mission Deep Sea.

My new new not-new computer arrived. This one has no problems with the keyboard so I’m working on the assumption that I’m keeping it. Going through the whole exercise of installing tools, downloading my files, etc.

It’s a Lenovo Thinkpad, which I selected for its build quality, according to the collective wisdom of the internet. It’s not shiny and beautiful like my Macbook Pro was, but it seems pretty solid.

I like its keyboard even better than the one on the Macbook. It already feels really good to type on.

The trackpad is not yet agreeing with me. It’s not at all as responsive as I’m used to. I have to press harder than I think I should, and when I forget and use the light touch I’m used to, it doesn’t move the pointer or doesn’t scroll. That’s going to take some getting used to.

The screen doesn’t seem small but somehow feels small anyway. It feels like I could fit so much more on the Macbook screen, especially when editing photos. I’ve fiddled with the zoom level (Windows is much more flexible about the screen zoom level than Mac OS) but somehow no setting feels quite right. I guess it’s just a matter of getting used to it.

Nysse still seems unwell. No appetite, no energy. With the wound on his ear looking all healed, something else must be going on. The online vet service guided me through inspecting all of Nysse’s body for invisible damage, and we found out that his tail is somehow hurt. Today I got an emergency appointment at a local vet clinic. They confirmed damage to the tail, but couldn’t see through his thick fur if there was an actual wound or not.

Off with the fur, then! Luckily there was no wound hiding under the fur, so maybe there’s “just” some internal damage. (Nothing too serious, because he is using and moving his tail quite normally.) Might be this isn’t even related to the fight he had, just coincidental timing. Anyway, he came home with a naked tail and a prescription for painkillers. Hopefully that will get him on track to heal.

The vet was going to tidy up the haircut, but Nysse wouldn’t have any more of that, so this is what he gets to live with.

I figured it out!

The two tweaks that I couldn’t think of yesterday were (i) changing the total width of the panel and (ii) shifting things vertically.

Yesterday I tried to add increases and decreases to shift the 11 + 11 stitches in the two halves into 12 + 10 and back, to make a curve in the middle. Today I took away two stitches from one side, so the curve is between 11 + 9 stitches. That left me with a shorter stem for each leaf. To make the stem actually reach the leaf, I put the leaves vertically closer to each other. In my first attempts, there was only ever one leaf going on at a time. Now the right-hand leaf starts before the left one ends. Not only did this give me that curved vine that I was after, I also got a tighter pattern overall, with less dead space.