Adrian and I went geocaching in Judarskogen nature reserve. We’ve been there before but then mostly followed the main trails, sometimes even on bikes. This time I kept us off those trails for a slightly wilder experience. It’s all criss-crossed with paths so it was still very easy walking, but a bit more fun this way.

In addition to caches we found several fallen trees right across the path. Adrian liked climbing over/under/along those.

We stopped to look at one of the newt ponds. There are several in Judarskogen, all man-made to compensate for the loss of natural ponds suitable for frogs and newts – shallow ponds of still water, with no fish. At first the pond looked all brown, slimy and dead. Then suddenly something moved, and I saw it was a big, fat frog. We looked more closely and saw a whole bunch of them sitting in the shallow muddy water near the edges, with just their eyes sticking out, seemingly staring at us.


End-of-school summer party at Adrian’s preschool: a show by the kids with songs and other performances, and then ice cream with strawberries.

All the kids got to choose what kind of the performances they wanted to do. There were songs, and “magic tricks”, and “tigers” leaping through “rings of fire”, etc. Adrian, after much deliberation, chose to be “master of ceremonies” together with her friend: they announced each new act.

I suspect he chose this role because it was the least showy one and let him stay in the background. He’s not one to enjoy standing in the limelight. So unlike Ingrid who topped off the show for her year with a duo with her best friend M, loudly singing Twinkle twinkle little star in Swedish and English.


The raspberry project continues. Yesterday I bought soil; today Adrian and I went shopping for raspberry bushes at Ulriksdal garden centre. I had two varieties in mind; unfortunately the garden centre had run out of one so we came home with only two bushes. (We got ‘Preussen’ but not ‘Mormorshallon’, “granny’s raspberries”.)

In the afternoon I prepared the planting boxes. With the other boxes it was a bit of a rush job – cheap geotextile in the bottom, in with the soil, done. This time I’m doing it thoroughly, both to keep the raspberries contained and to keep the weeds out: stronger geotextile, all the way up along the sides, stapled to the box.

We are really struggling with weeds in the strawberry boxes. There is one particular kind that is almost impossible to get rid of, once it takes hold: it spreads quickly by rhizome, and the rhizomes break so easily that it’s impossible to get them out. One of these year’s we’ll probably start over with those boxes: empty them completely, put in stronger geotextile and fill them up with fresh, clean soil.


We’re shopping for new rubber boots for Adrian. The old ones were green and had little dogs on them and Adrian liked them in all ways, except they had huge cracks in them and holes in the sole.

He also has another pair, or rather, we have another pair in his size, but those are pink (because they used to be Ingrid’s) and while he can wear them when there is no other option, he doesn’t really accept them as his boots.

One could argue that that’s a waste of a perfectly usable pair of boots… but I imagine myself being forced to wear boots that I consider tasteless and ugly, and I sympathize with him. Besides, the other pair doesn’t really go to waste – it is good to have two pairs of rubber boots so one can stay more or less permanently at his preschool (or school, from autumn).


We’re preparing planting boxes for raspberry bushes.

We have an apple tree and a cherry tree; a gooseberry bush and strawberries and rhubarb. Raspberries are a favourite that we don’t yet have, so they are on this year’s list of prioritized gardening projects.


A handsome and practical hair style.


Summer is effectively here and the kids at preschool spend a lot of time outdoors. Adrian keeps coming home scratches and scraped knees, with and without sticky plasters. Their games seem to involve a lot of sand and stones – I always find sand and gravel in his pockets.

When we get home, he is usually not only dirty but also tired and hungry. The standard procedure is for me to first remind him to wash his hands (and now also his arms up to his elbows), then make “apple boats” for him. He eats a few apples and/or other fruit and watches stuff on the iPad. Then he tells me he is still hungry and asks whether dinner is done soon.

It is Adrian’s responsibility to set the table for dinner. He grumbles about it, almost daily, and says he is tired, but still does it. He has been doing it for weeks, but still asks me almost every time whether he has put each piece in the right place. Mostly he gets it right – fork on the left, knife and glass on the right. When he is really tired, he loses track halfway, and sets some places correctly while others end up mirrored.

Favourite activities: movies and Legos. He never asks for any other toys, only for Legos. We buy a new Lego model him roughly monthly, or bi-monthly if he wants a larger one. When he has enough pocket money saved up, he buys more for his own money. The latest one we bought was a Star Wars X-Wing fighter. Two favourites in one – Lego and Star Wars! He’s got his eyes on the Millennium Falcon model, which is unfortunately too large and too expensive.

He may like the cool, large models, but actually he seems to have more fun with smaller sets. With the big ones, he builds them once, then admires them, plays with the figures, and that’s it. Then we take them apart and put them away, and he is not very interested in rebuilding them. The larger the set, the less likely he is to rebuild it.

He spends much more time building random weird things from a smaller number of pieces, for example a part of a smaller model, or the leftover pieces of a larger one. He likes building with odd-shaped pieces in particular, that you can’t just put together any which way. The outcomes are always interesting to look at, and in his head they are even more interesting – he often has fanciful explanations for what they really are.

Favourite movies: Star Wars: Clone Wars and Lego: Justice League – naturally. He wants to see the actual Star Wars movies but we tell him he’s too young. Also, Batman.

Favourite clothes: sweatpants and sweat shorts. Crocs shoes, which give him blisters when he walks around in them all day, so he wears them with socks.

Favourite colours: blue, green and orange.

Odds and ends: for a few weeks he was waking really, really early in the morning – around 5:30. A year ago he would have woken us, because he couldn’t be on his own. Now he goes downstairs (as quietly as he can manage, which isn’t very quiet really – which is how I know when he wakes) and then watches something on the iPad. I think that has now passed; this morning he woke with us at around 7.

He can still comfortably squat like a kid


Blowing dandelions, on our way home from preschool.

We saw the first blowable dandelions a few days ago, and Adrian picked every single one. Today there were slightly more, but still few enough that both kids ran to them and almost kept count to make sure each of them got a fair share.


Ingrid cooks dinner once a week; Adrian’s responsibility is to set the table for dinner every day.