{"id":9748,"date":"2018-02-15T22:46:37","date_gmt":"2018-02-15T21:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/?p=9748"},"modified":"2018-02-18T21:51:11","modified_gmt":"2018-02-18T20:51:11","slug":"one_hundred_and_thirty-six_months","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/2018\/02\/15\/one_hundred_and_thirty-six_months\/","title":{"rendered":"One hundred and thirty-six months"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/helen\/blog\/images\/2\/Ingrid_136m_1.jpg\" class=\"x6y4\" \/><br \/>\nShe has her nose in a phone quite a lot of time. Except when she is playing <i>Overwatch<\/i> or <i>Minecraft<\/i> or <i>Fortnite<\/i>. I keep reminding her to do get off the phone\/PC\/iPad but like a magnet the screen pulls her back, and I can&#8217;t spend all my time monitoring her.<\/p>\n<p>I make her read at least fifteen minutes every day, but she likes postponing this task until late at night. She likes doing things last minute. Her argument &#8211; that it is better to play first and read later as a way to wind down &#8211; makes sense but does mean that sometimes it simply gets forgotten.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/helen\/blog\/images\/2\/Ingrid_136m_3.jpg\" class=\"x6y4\" \/><br \/>\nShe is anxious and worried. Not all the time and about all things, but it&#8217;s a constant undercurrent. It seems like hard way to go through life, and I wish I could help her not worry. I hug her, I tell her that things don&#8217;t need to be perfect, and that she is good at what she is doing, and that whatever she chooses or decides will be just fine, but it&#8217;s still not enough.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/helen\/blog\/images\/2\/Ingrid_136m_2.jpg\" class=\"x4y6\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She has her nose in a phone quite a lot of time. Except when she is playing Overwatch or Minecraft or Fortnite. I keep reminding her to do get off the phone\/PC\/iPad but like a magnet the screen pulls her back, and I can&#8217;t spend all my time monitoring her. I make her read at [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ingrid_johanna","category-monthly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9748"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9754,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748\/revisions\/9754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}