{"id":20119,"date":"2025-02-03T08:48:46","date_gmt":"2025-02-03T07:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/?p=20119"},"modified":"2025-02-09T08:58:40","modified_gmt":"2025-02-09T07:58:40","slug":"daily_3625_-_night_in_the_city","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/2025\/02\/03\/daily_3625_-_night_in_the_city\/","title":{"rendered":"Daily: 3625 &#8211; night in the city"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/helen\/blog\/images\/daily_4\/3625_city.jpg\" class=\"x4y6\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On the one hand, during the weeks when the kids are with Eric, I have more free time than ever. I could go out to concerts or jazz clubs or all sorts of places.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, for those weeks I am the only person taking care of Nysse. If I&#8217;m gone from early morning to late night, he&#8217;s going to be alone and hungry and cold. (I&#8217;ve tried waiting around in the mornings to see if he&#8217;ll come in again after I let him out after his breakfast, but he doesn&#8217;t.) So I feel less guilty if I book an evening activity for when Ingrid and Adrian are staying with me, even though I am then leaving them alone. Poor Nysse got the short end of the stick in the divorce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On the one hand, during the weeks when the kids are with Eric, I have more free time than ever. I could go out to concerts or jazz clubs or all sorts of places. On the other hand, for those weeks I am the only person taking care of Nysse. If I&#8217;m gone from early [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,799,778,4,768],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dailies","category-divorce","category-nystagmus","category-observing_the_self","category-photography-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20119","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20119"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20119\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20121,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20119\/revisions\/20121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toomik.net\/helen\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}